don’t date anyone who doesn’t ask you about your childhood and why you are the way that you are
don’t date anyone who won’t work to understand and accept those things
Anonymous asked: The other day my boyfriend admitted to having nudes of each of his exes stored away on his laptop, and he rarely looks at them. I was really bothered and it really bruised my self esteem. I asked him to delete it and he refused, saying it was a part of him along with other sentimental photos and items of his past relationships. I began to cry and he told me he understood why i was hurt, but said i was overreacting. I wanted your insight, what would you do?
i would be very upset, you aren’t in the wrong at all i would honestly consider breaking up with my boyfriend if he refused to delete nude pictures of his exes, there’s a difference between sentimental photos that were a big part of his past and folders filled with nudes of his exes. i was upset when my boyfriend still had pictures of his ex on his facebook and realized how silly it was but if he had nudes of her stored away somewhere and refused to delete them that would be a deal breaker